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I feel bad for you and your situation.
It is always tough when someone else's debts bring you down.
Unfortunately, student loans are nearly impossible to discharge, even if they are not your own.
Filing a BK case could end your DMP and get rid of all your other debts, so that all of your excess money can go to helping your daughter and her loans.
So the BK would basically help to clear everything else but those.
The other option is to really push her to get a federal consolidation so that she can start making those payments. I understand she tried, but in order for you to not have to pay, it may be worth setting up an appointment for her and attending with her and helping with the paperwork as much as possible.
It is a tough situation for you to be in for sure.
I will give you a moment to read all this and catch up, and then we can go from there.
Yes, I agree, and have been trying to get her to get that right. The frustration is that I can't contact the Consolodation folks for her. She screws it us and is overwhelmed and blames me then she is too busy to work on it. Really she is overwhelmed, but I watch my credit sink lower and lower over the past 6 months.
Well, if she can get the papers and you can take them
and help fill them out
then that may help
I would basically play it as this "I understand that you are busy and overwhelmed."
"Let me help you and fill it out for you."
That way you know it is done and done right
Yes, we started that process, but they wanted IRS data and the IRS was difficult to deal with. The mail goes to her house and I have no idea where she it. I think it's start over time because she neglected it for months. We do it together, and she rushes through so I can't double check it and the agency won't work with me. It's a real headache.
Well see if she will let you do all of it this time, and when she has to call, try to be there
so that you can help guide her through it.
a BK in your name can get rid of all your other debts
I'm writing to see if bankrupcy is an option for me for the loans I have. Also can I refinance with the govt underwater plan under these circumstances.
so that you can focus on helping her financially if you are forced into doing so.
If you home is underwater, Yes
I wanted to downsize my home, but with my credit so low now, I wonder if I can just refi under that program and rent out the big house. Sallie Mae can't touch my house, right?
you may be bale to use different government programs to get a Loan Modification or alter your loan
It will definitely help you with your credit card bills
I have a regular loan and a second mortgage. Can I combine them under that program.
Actually there are better ones where if your home is worth less than your first mortgage
your second can be stripped completely
A qualified attorney in your area can assist you bse dupon the factors of your specific home
I'm thinking if I do the refi first then file bankruptcy after I have the reduced rate mortgage, I'd be betteroff. How do I find out if it's worth less that the first mortgage. What about zillow.com, is that a fair gauge?
zillow or the county value
Then compare to first mortgage amount
There are many factors wrapped around your specific situation and mortgage amounts
So there are many options\
I know it is tough and confusing
trying to deal with your daughter's situation and your own
but I think a combination of a BK for you and a Consolidation for her will help you both
I hope this was helpful.
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Thanks for your help. I never thought I'd be here, but now my ability to retire is most important. I've been in the DMP over a year and a half with a 4 year plan. I think my credit won't get better fast enought for my to sell my house and buy another one even in the 2.5 years that it would take me to complete the DMP program so why bother.
One more question. Can Sallie Mae garnish my wages. My daugher is also employed. Who would they garnish first or would they do both?
They would garnish her first
You would be the backup in case all collection actions against her fail.
HAve a great day!!!
and good luck!
Could you please weigh in on my thoughts about my credit recovery time and selling my current home. I feel bankrupcy should be an absolute last resort.
I just checked my HARP eligibility and my home first mortgage is likey in the 80% loan to value and held by Fannie Mae. So is it best to go through a bankruptsy lawyer to get the second mortgage written off or just apply for the HARP through my lender?
My second is around $20,000
Well if there is no equity, then try to get the second removed AND do HARP.
If you want to avoid a BK, then apply for a loan modification and see what you can get done
Credit usually rebuilds quickly if you do good things and slowly if you dont.
So if you pay mortgage/car payment on time for a year, your credit score will increase
If you miss a payment or two, it will not
So with or without a BK, as long as going forward you pay things timely, your credit improves.
Let em know if there is anything else!
How would I go about getting the second removed?
It is hard to do without an attorney because you have to file what is called an Adversary Proceeding.
This is basically a lawsuit
in the BK
against the second mortgage company
alleging that they are unsecured.
If they are, then they become an unsecured creditor like a credit card and the mortgage is stripped.
Ok, so would I do the HARP before I contact the attourney or do it in tandem.
I would do it together. Usually the same attorney can help with both a Loan Mod and a BK.
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