Thank you for your very prompt reply. I am very impressed.
That question did come up "hiding money" and I must say, that one never did occur to me. In fact, I do keep a journal, which I am sure the court would never allow as anything except "hearsay" but in my journal I did write about my mother's death, the money I inherited and the fact that I did (very stupidly) lend $30,000 to my x-husband. I remember thinking it was a "save our marriage loan." I think that the check(s) he wrote to me for that amount was a repayment of the loan. Problem is, I don't seem to be able to prove it at this point ... only in my journal. He wrote the repayment checks form the LLC account (I did not notice
at the time) He is a rather well known NYC CPA.
This is getting complicated isn't it?
OK, I was not hiding money, that is not the case. In fact, once he repaid me, I went on to put in two bathrooms (we needed them).
I tried very hard to make the divorce agreement stringent. I wonder which is more important in the eyes of the law ... divorce or bankruptcy? I am trying to be informed. I am hoping that my life will not be encumbered by a guy that should have no further influence on me and how I live.
Wow, hope you can tackle that. Thanks, Diane