You can make an application for residency with the court if he will not sign consent orders. But the court will not relinquish his parental responsibility unless there is violence.
Here is some information.
In terms of sending the paperwork if you do not know his where abouts but are aware of people he has contact with e.g. parents brothers and sisters et you ask for an order of substituted service.
The court will grant this.
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