You need to go and see a solicitor that practices in criminal law.
The police will not withdraw it easily. Your wife is their witness and she is the one that has to go to court on the next occasion and thought the prosecutor convince the magistrate.
If you choose to accept it without admissions you will need a solicitor there so that the court is satisfied you understand the implications this has on you.
I would not be accepting it if the facts are incorrect. They need to be corrected and if they are false all together and you have not been violent then you should be pleading not guilty and running a hearing.
It will cost you money but your record is at stake here as any acceptance or finding that you have done these things will appear on your record.
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