My name is ***** ***** I am a NSW Solicitor. Thank you for your question, and will do my best to assist you with your question. Please understand this is not legal advise Please understand this is not legal advise but a guide to assist you
Firstly what you each do in your own wills is your own business and you should not be influenced by each other.
If you leave nothing to your children and leave it to him there is not guarantee he will give anything in his will to your kids and the same applies the other way.
You have to make provisions for your children in your will.
Do not rely on him making provisions if you pass away and she should be doing the same thing.
I cannot tell you how to distribute that is your choice.
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