I broke up with my ex boyfriend 6 months ago. He is refusing to accept it and openly says he knows we will get back together. I am exhausted, I tell him all the time it is over and to move on. He will be okay through the week but on weekends is relentles with phone calls (he blocks his number) texts, knocks on my door or parks his car in my street watching my house.It has got to the point now I have my curtains drawn and doors closed so he is never sure if I'm home. He looks in my garage to see if my car is there.I am uneasy on the weekends to leave my house and will not go out at night on my own. I live in Brisbane what can I do?
What have you tried so far?: I ignore his texts and phone calls but this seems to make him more upset and he then comes to my door.
I have an iPhone so can not block his number. It is a work phone so I can not change my number.
He has psychological problems and when he is ignored he gets very frustrated.
I feel like I'm a captive in my own home.
I used to live close to him and have moved to an area he has no need to visit but he does.
I really didn't know what I could do. He hasn't threatened me. Does that involve going to court?Is there such a thing as a stalking order?
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