I Have final Orders and sole custody after a lenghty" magellan" case in family law , my daughter has supervised visits until 18years of age. Since August 2010 ive been back to court with false accusations of contrevention , all 28 charges where dropped before entering the court room, needless to say this is a very costly process. he is constantly demanding information i already supplied as by the order Long term issues , schooling Doctor / Medical , Religion and Travel also phone contact. He demands things even after contacting the schools doctor etc as the court order allows him to find out at his expense information and after already providing this information to him anyway, I always provide all information to him as well. Hes now contacted a mediation process to have discussion in regards XXXXX XXXXX contact , schools information, flexibility in phone contact and supervised contact time with his partner. could this be a case of Harrassment as i always abide by the orders, I feel under attack and get anxious now even when i go to my post box to collect the mail this started 4 weeks after final orders and hasnt stopped yet. what should i do as fiancially my daughter suffers as any money is spent on legal representation.
communication via mail , consultation process as per order. i supply every bit of information to him that is required and more . nothing works he continually lies about situations and then threatens contrevention.
Yes!!! everything even phone calls I am constantly keeping all records of correspondance and have done as i know the nature of the beast. He manipulates , lies and twists situations not to benefit our daughter , but himself. for instance our daughter has held a passport which he signed when she was 2 years old i wasnt living with him at the time he signed it because we had a family holiday booked for a very long time while i was with him, we seperated and he refused to cancel his booking and when she required it to be renewed so she could travell with her dance school to disney land to dance on stage after myself holding the passport for 5 years he refused to consent as he stated i was a flight risk. In this time i had travelled to America twice for work .The passport office had a person not qualified to deny my application . I sent in a B7 & B9 form attaching it to my court orders as I have sole custody and unfetted parental responsibility, the court order didnt state "sole" thats where this person didnt read the whole order as i only have an area where i have a cosiltation process to notify him of any long term issues as stated above and passports are not a long term issue?. I tagged onto the court proceedings of the contrevention i was being taken to court for
I was given an order for the passport with or without the fathers signature . all the Money for Hollies trip is now spent on legal fees and she carnt attend . This is just two issues.
I send all correspondence via registered post, I keep all photo copies of documents sent , I did apply for costs when he took me for the 28 contrevention and passport case. He pulled out before it went in to court that day , the judge didnt award costs at all ? I didnt undestand why? Now ive been contacted by the telephone mediation centre as he wants to vary whats in the orders , I dont want anything to go against me from refusing mediation? We have final orders after being in the court system for 31/2 years he hasnt followed the orders by skipping the consiltation process and im following the orders to the T.
Yes he did even before we went to court they attached it to my documents , the Judge decided on the day not to approve it . Yes it is a night mare and im worn out.
BEc Dip Ed, Dip Law (SAB) MTax (UNSW)
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