You will only be able to speak to her doctor if your ex-wife gives authority to the doctor to speak to you.
If the matter goes to court, you can issue a subpoena to her doctor and her medical records will be produced to the court, so that there will be evidence available about the treatment she is receiving and whether she is compliant.
can i keep the children until we go to family relationships?
they dont want to go with her
Yes if you have concerns about their safety and are not able to put in place mechanisms for their protection until you go to family dispute resolution, you can.
However you have a responsibility as a parent to facilitate a relationship between them and their Mother in a way that their safety is protected. This can include supervised time.
ok also she follows me at school when i pick kids up and creates dramas how can i stop that?
You can apply for a protection order against her. You go to your local magistrates Court and they will have staff there who can assist you in filling in the appropriate form.
can i supply her doctor information in person that she is not aware of?
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