Hi Sir or Madam, welcome. I'm acramstr. And I will be assisting you today. Where did you get the new relay?
what happens if you plug the old one in and try to start the car?
old one or new one same thing. tries to turn over but no go. Pep boys is where I got the new one. the car died this morning after coming to a stop at a light. no sputter just died, no radio sputter either everything else was working? My name is Kai?sir
there is nosie when its "on" a series of clicks after 3-5 seconds and yes I have a volt meter
ok, It sounds like it is working. To be sure skip to step 15 in this trouble shooting chart and make sure it has power to #4 for 2 seconds when you turn the key on. https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/89860259/relay.pdf
if it does then you might have another problem other than the relay. Let me know what you find.